Posted by Amy in Orlando on 20:27 Jun 28
In Reply to: How can I put limits on playing with the next door neighbor kids? sm posted by Another Michelle
If they've just moved in, I wouldn't panic, it might be a novelty thing. Definitely meet the parents, you'll get a much better idea of what you're dealing with in terms of rules, outside activities, etc. We live in a neighborhood FULL of kids. My house is constantly full of boys.
Generally, I insist that they play outside and I try to keep a window open so I can here what is going on. I keep a jug of ice water outside with a stack of paper cups and the only snack I offer is those freezer pops that are in plastic. I don't feed the neighbors, I don't welcome them to make my house theirs (I do let the kids use the bathroom though, lol).
If it's really rainy or super-hot, the kids can play in the screened-in porch. Board games, legos, fooz ball, making movies. I don't have neighbor kids in to play video games or just hang out. Having these set rules has helped us from being overrun with kids.
I'm surprised at how many disappear when a board game or anything non-electronic is their only option. Also, all the kids that play here know that I know their parents number(s) and won't hesitate to call them.
Good luck.